Wednesday, December 17, 2008
More Traditions
My folks sent me up some wonderful Christmas CDs whch we have been enjoying immensely. THANKS!!!
Um, I know. No stuff over the holidays, but I keep hearing about our new "exalted leader"'s penchant for the Red Star- and that the college kids that meet to worship him or whatever it is they do, are wearing that in place of the US Flag on their lapels. Um, wasn't the Red Star the symbol the USSR and China used for their troops? You can get them on eBay. To me, it's just a little creepy and I'm having visions of Delores Umbridge in the Office. Just had to get that off my mind. If anyone knows the truth of it, I'd be more than happy to hear it.
Ok, like my Aunt, I've been enjoying the Christmas movies on TV this year. They're so un-PC. Refreshing and delightful! I'd love to see "Happy Hanukkah, Charlie Brown!" as much as the next girl, but the ones that have been on have been happy and fun. And we're still trying really, really hard with our "suspend cynicism and sarcasm" for the month of December. It's not easy, I tell you. I hadn't realized just how snarky we'd become. (blush)
As we've been clearing out our storage room (it leaks), we've found some great things we thought were lost. And I found my Joker action figure- from back when the Joker was just a merry prankster and not a twisted freak. So, while I'm studying and the kids are playing, we play that Joker's studying and he interjects various pranks based on the text I'm studying. Sounds a lot less fun than it really is; plus it gives me interaction with the kids instead of just studying endlessly with my brain twitching. "Jingle Bells, Batman Smells..." heehee
Ok, I reckon it's time for me to get started on bedtime stuff. Stories we've read so far include:
The Diggingest Dog by Al Perkins
Grizzwold by Syd Hoff
Dr. Seuss's Green Eggs and Ham and One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish
Arch Books The Beggar's Wish (about Bartimaeus- I LOVE Arch Books!)
The Berenstain Bears and the Messy Room (which did NOT go over well)
The Coal Truck by Miss Francis (from an early 50s show)
Petunia's Christmas by Duvoisin
I Wish I had Duck Feet by Theo LeSieg
The King, the Mice, and the Cheese by Nancy and Gurney
and tonight's is Sam and the Firefly by P.D. Eastman
Most of these came with me from my childhood and between the kids and my brothers, I reckon I've read them enough that I can comfortably read them upside-down (pictures showing to the audience) and still keep the rhyming cadence as my mom read them. It's been great! And the Scrooge McDuck cartoon was cuter than I remembered- heehee- and Pooh's Christmas movie brought back memories of my own babies and how they used to say the names of the characters. Ah, bittersweet Christmas- how it reminds us that time is fleeting and that memories fade.
Good tidings of comfort and joy to you all!
ttfn
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Long Time
I'm sorry it's been so long since I posted. I get a headache if I'm on my computer too long. Recovering still from a blooming head injury. Yes, I took a tumble down a long set of concrete stairs and landed on my head. Good thing I'm a Baptist or I'd've been hurt bad. (Baptists are known for being hard-headed for any of you that don't know any personally ;) )
Anyway, I just want to wish everybody a very merry Christmas! I hope to post more between now and then, but I'm having to ease back into it. My typing skills are still horrible and train of thought is still whispy and smoke-like. But, glory to God (and THANKS so much, too!!) I am seeing improvements from how it was.
Kids are great, husband's great. Christmas crafts and Spirit are abounding. A tradition we have at Christmas is to read one or two young children's books (from when the kids were little) each day. It is great. Also, we read a part of Dickens' Cricket on the Hearth each year. Maybe this year we'll finish it. That poor blind girl! And how funny that the grouchy old guy just completely doesn't get it at all. He was one heck of a writer.
My record player is on the fritz, so our usual tradition of listening to 50s Christmas records from the A&P has been thwarted. But, never fear. I found some CDs, so we can still have Christmas music. The songs from the British Isles are especially beautiful, and Bing Crosby sounds just as good on CD as on record. I don't have any Andy Williams this year, though. :-( That's a tradition like the 50s records that I brought with me from my Mama. Ah, well. Maybe I can get some from eBay. I have to say, I wish I had one of the old low-tech wind up kind of record players. And a bunch of extra needles. I love those old gadgets that didn't use electricity or computer chips. Like that old Fisher Price movie viewer. The kids thought that was the neatest thing. Sure, they love the tech, but they were really impressed that you could watch a movie by turning a crank. And that it was still good after years in a box.
Another tradition we have is we follow the 12 days of Christmas by opening a present from on the tree each of the days with a special one on Twelfth Night (Orthodox Christmas). We also celebrate Hannaka, even if we can't spell it. The Maccabee Story is awesome so long as you leave off the very end of it. We usually end with the 8 days of light. "FREEDOM!!!"
Well, that's about all for me for now. Have a WONDERFUL holiday season whichever of the holidays you celebrate. Thank you, Jesus!
JRS
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Happy Veteran's Day!
I appreciate our Veterans and think that they should be remembered more than a couple of times a year. Me and the kids used to volunteer at the VA Hospital about 2 hours away. Veterans Day, Christmas, and Valentines Day are BIG days at the VA. So many people show up with gifts and food- it's really great. Even performers come for Veterans Day. But, the rest of the year, the vets might as well not exist. The volunteers try to make them feel special every day, true. But, many of the vets expressed to me that they felt like the recognition on the one day was more for the people doing it than for them.
I wasn't sure what they meant at first, but it was explained, and seemed pretty evident after- the folks showing up, many of them were doing it to make themselves feel good. Or they were campaigning. Or trying to win a bid. Or a scholarship. As soon as the program was over, so many of them were "outta there!" like scalded cats.
At first, I thought the vets were just being fussy, but I watched how they were talked down to- you know, like some people do with children- speaking very slowly with false cheerfulness & with their eyes belying the fact that they were disgusted and thought the vets were really less than they were.
Though, the ones who truly cared, the vets really thought highly of. The little old ladies who came every week with toiletry baskets or coffee. The folks that went room to room to just talk with the vets or bring magazines.
We thought about relocating closer to the VA so we could volunteer more, but expenses are much higher there. I hated not being able to keep it up. We did it for nearly a year. And yes, it was in the patient library. The kids learned the organization really well and could direct the vets to the books they were looking for. The vets really loved the kids. There was a mutual respect there.
You know, as the holidays draw closer, we are reminded of people we'd forgotten through the year. We try to make up for it with cards or gifts. All the times we put off calling or writing, or even texting come to mind. But, why are we here? For personal gratification? That's the reason we usually put off visiting or letting somebody know we care- we don't have time because we do not TAKE time. See, time will waste and time will flow by like the James River and we are left with nothing to show for it but being the best at quoting scores, news, or reruns. To take time, we must step into the river and embrace the chill. We must for a moment give up our personal preferences for something lasting and substancial.
I hear the "but I don't have money" thing as often. And I'm a bad one for it myself. But, it costs no money to call for most people on nights and weekends. It costs no additional money to send an email. It costs what, 35 cents? to mail a letter. How much would it brighten your day to recieve something besides bills and catalogues in the mail?
Let us try to remember our veterans throughout the year. A kind word goes a long way with them. "Welcome Home" and "Thank You" are ones that the vets I know have really appreciated. And they are surprised by them. Isn't it nice to give someone a pleasant surprise?
You don't need me to tell you what these brave men and women have to go through. Most have joined the service to help keep our country free for all the rest of us. And I won't even go into what the media has done to them over the last 4 or 5 decades. But again, I will say "Thank you and Welcome Home" and thank you and thank you again.
God Bless America and God Bless our Troops!
Writing Days
Monday, November 10, 2008
"Who put the Rifle on the Potato Salad?!"
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Family
Done, ok.
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Grampa Stan. He was a quiet man. (hee hee) He could really sing and had quite a deep voice. He used to sing at this place called Bobbits and it was like the singins that we go to over at Ivanhoe. Mostly Gospel and all the local musicians, anyone could get up and sing which was really cool. My first public appearance (heeheehee) was singing For Those Tears I Died with my grampa Stan. They sang a lot of Gaither stuff, too.
Grampa was a serious kinda guy. He really loved his Mama (maybe I should've started with her...). He was short-ish like one of my brothers. He was of Lithuanian/Polish heritage. He was a first generation born-here dude and he was in WWII. I'm pretty sure he met my Gramma at the USO.
Grampa expected kids to be respectful and respectable. He did not drink. He worked 3rd shift a lot. His dad was a coal miner in PA after he and Nana got married- he's the one from Lithuania, she was from Poland.
Ah, Grampa used to read the Reader's Digest Condensed Books and he'd look like he was asleep, but would laugh when you said so. He taught me how to do cryptograms when I was 4. That was really cool. He didn't mind if I climbed up in bed with him and Gramma and read or did a cryptogram. He worked word puzzles and different kinds of things like that, too.
He was a member of the Sportsman's Club. I went swimming there. He loved the river. He'd take me for walks by the river and tell me not to be afraid about the tide washing me away. See, the river near their house was only accessable at low tide. High tide the whole beach was gone and the water was up at the road. To me it looked like a long way down. I'm pretty sure he liked to fish.
Unfortunately, I was pretty young when he passed away, so I don't know too much about him. Plus, he was a pretty closed kinda guy. He was always saying things that I didn't quite get like "don't look a gift horse in the mouth". I hadn't gotten a horse... He died just a short while after his mom did. He got Gramma a place at Lewes just before he died- I think he knew he was on his way out. He loved God a lot and I think he was looking forward to seeing him.
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Well, it's time for me to take an asprin and have early morning art class. For some odd reason the kids are singing "oh, dem golden slippers"... Happy weekend to all!
Update on the baby:
Her name is Sparrow, she's 9 months old and has MRSA and Pneumonia. Her dad has to leave for Iraq again in January. Please keep praying for this baby and her family.
Blessings!
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Guy Fawkes' Night or Bonfire Night
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Meanderings of the Overstudied Mind
Friday, October 31, 2008
Election Woes
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Brrrr!
Brrrrr! Tonight is cold! This picture is from 2004 which had to be the worst year EVER. But, it passed and was not without it's nice moments.
This night we were at my cousin's house in PA just
before my Gramma's second funeral. Yes, she had two funerals. One down South and one up North. My family and Aunt Susan attended both.
Gramma was a real character, so it was only fitting that she should go out in style.
(looking uo toward heaven: HI, GRAMMA!!!!)
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Well, Sunday, we did indeed make it to the AM service. We live in an old mining town and took a field trip up to another old mining town. We went deep into the beautiful mountains. From up that high, you could see the fog tracing the paths of the rivers and branches- it was AMAZING.
And I must say, it was the best church service I've been to since 2006. The Book of Jude was the text & if you've not read it in awhile, I highly recommend it- a lot of good stuff in that little book.
Afterwards, we ate hotdogs and frozen custard- a rare treat, the custard. And yes, I had sprinkles!
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There's something about the old mining towns. A sense of the real, if you know what I mean. People are who and what they are and are accepting and unashamed. If they don't like you, you will know it- unlike places which are superficial, the mining towns may be closed to outsiders, but if you are welcomed in- you are truly welcome. Hardworking folks, who have never had anything easy or handed to them- and would be appalled at the idea of not working for what they have- I love them! And when they worship, it is for real. We all had a great experience with the folks and I can't wait 'till I can go back again.
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The top pic with the 3 dudes... these are my cousins after the funeral. My Gramma was buried on New Year's Eve and at the beach (big grin). Some of us went to the place where my cousins used to have a cottage and the family used to all get together summers. I reckon I was about 12 or 14 when my family quit going. I wish we'd kept that, you know? It was really a great time. I'll tell a little about it.
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Dad would get his vacation and hook up a boat if he had one to a pick-up truck or a van. He'd chuck mattresses in the back of the truck and my brothers and myself would ride back there. Dad had a habit of getting distracted talking to Mama and would kindof be all over the road. This happened whatever vehicle we were in and my brothers and me would usually have to hit the glass to ask to pull over so we could sick up. Dad liked to take HWY 52, which was crooked- but whichever way he took, we'd be green long before we got to Delaware.
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Sometimes we'd stay at a hotel and sometimes with Gramma. Aunts Judi and Susan I think spent a month or the whole summer, but we joined for a week. Days we'd head over to Aunt Susan's cottage which was GREAT. It had a screened in porch with one of those spring-loaded doors- the screen was that thick metal mesh you can't find nowadays and it gave a very satisfying -THWACK- when you'd let it close.
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Unfortunately, there was a danger lurking at Aunt Susan's. You had to have a member of her family there with you or her vicious dog would attack. No big deal unless everyone was busy and you had to go potty. The dog would growl as soon as he heard the screen door creak open. He'd chase you all the way to the bathroom, biting at your ankles all the way and showing how long his fangs were. Did I mention the dog was an itty, bitty fox terrier? I thought for the longest time that the word Terror came from the same roots as Terrier. Ah, yes. Tinker. The dog from you-know-where.
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The dunes were high and the walk down to the beach seemed so long with the hot sand underfoot, but soon you were at the bay. And we could take the dinghy out or swim- just beware of jellyfish and horseshoe crabs. The grown-ups were always talking, sitting in itchy chairs. I'd wait for the sandbar to show up and go out to chase around hermit crabs. It was a whole different world out there on the little, sinking "island". Mama would "walk forever" with me sometimes, but usually Dad wanted her close- the old romantic!
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See, I was a betwixt and between. All my cousins were of an age and in 3s. The older 3, then me, then the middle 3, then the youngest 3. So, I spent a lot of time just walking the shore and swimming alone or riding my bike. I'd try to sit with the grown-ups, but... and then my Uncle Richard would notice that the kids were ignoring me and so were the adults and he'd invite me out on one of his boats. He was so good to me that way. He taught me all about rigging and the boom, how to lean with the Catamaran (sp?) and how to tack if the wind wasn't cooperating. He was full of interesting information about the water and boats and the creatures of the sea and the weather. He could tell a storm was coming long before clouds were visible. And best of all, he always, always just accepted me for how I was. He never tried to play head games with me or see how smart (or dumb) I was- he was just there- the perfect uncle. (waves toward heaven again)
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Nights we'd build a bonfire and roast sandy marshamllows and watch the stars. Now, one of these nights Mama would save for me to "walk forever" picking up smooth stones and watching the lights of the Cape May Ferry. We'd have sweatshirts and jeans on, but we'd be barefoot (my favourite way to be) and we'd sometimes flip a coin to see which way to go. It was so much fun. And the lights and stars were so pretty and peaceful. We'd skirt other people's bonfires and keep going 'till we got tired and then we'd turn around and come back. I was blind as a bat, so the lights were especially glowy and beautiful- a magical time for me.
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And one night- usually the last- we'd go to the pier at Rehoboth Beach. The waves at Rehoboth were bigger, but that's another story. The pier was great! The Haunted House with it's jerky cars was a must, as was the Ferris Wheel. I usually rode both with my middle brother. We'd get a big, soft pretzel to share with Mama, and each of us got a slice of the foldy kind of pizza- totally different from pizza down South. Very flour-y tasting crust and if you weren't careful, the cheese would be in your lap. And I'd spend my money on a box of salt-water taffy. I loved that stuff- & still do!
Later, we'd step down to the beach to look at the waves and walk a little ways- this Mama did with me and the boys & possibly some cousins, while my Dad was socializing with the adults. We'd watch the teens throwing back and forth the glowy things and dip our toes in the water. It was usually very windy, so we didn't stay by the water too long. We'd stand back and just look at the waves and the stars and the lights on the other side of the bay. Lovely. :-)
Then it was back to where we were staying for one last night before the sweaty, carsick ride home. But, between bouts of sicking up, my brothers and I usually had a great laughing time.
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Well, I reckon that's all for tonight. Stay warm, everyone!
Rose
Sunday, October 26, 2008
School, school, school
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I still need to get up all the black walnuts & put them where they can dry out... The hullworms have done their work on the ones that fell in the driveway, but the ones in the yard are still green. I reckon I need to move them to the driveway, too.
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Avon Website is back up- I'm an ERep again.
http://www.youravon.com/rosesnow
Anyone wanting to drop by, it's free shipping directly to you on orders of $15 or more right now. :-D Christmas is coming, the goose is getting fat...
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I got to see one of my Aunts today- she's a peach- super smart and just a lovely person inside and out. Queen Susan, that's her. It was a nice visit with her and Mama. I love days like today.
The one complaint I have is that I wasted time. Of all the things I could have done, I watched Psycho. Ick. Hitchcock was all about pushing the limits of the Code at that time, wasn't he?
But, the rest of the day was super great.
The sky was October Blue and the leaves were all colourful, the views of the mountains were Christmas card clear- beautiful!
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Well, I'm off to read Bible with the kids and take a nap. We are hoping to make it to a morning service- which third-shift living doesn't usually allow for us. We'll try it this way & I'll let ya know how it goes.
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Remember folks, October is Pastor Appreciation Month. So, if you haven't appreciated a pastor yet, time's running out! ;-)
Oh, and only a few more days 'till the election- Go out and Vote Informed. :)
~~Rose
Friday, October 17, 2008
Put God First- He'll Take Care of the Rest
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Another Day in the Life
Friday, October 10, 2008
A Beautiful Day
Catering?? What was I thinking?
The picture is of Google, by the way. He is part of the family along with Mike and Greeney, their wives and kids. No, I'm not completely crazy, these guys take on a life of their own. %)
Some background? Hmm. I grew up in "Mayberry". I'm a homeschool mom, college student, homemaker, and Avon Lady. I go to an awesome church (yes, I said 'awesome') and hang out with little old ladies a lot. I personally think they're the best- tied with little kids for most interesting company besides my family. And how I love, love, love my family!
Oh, I'm on Facebook- about once every 6 weeks. It's confusing and I'm not crazy about it- AT ALL- but, it's the only place I know I can get ahold of my kinfolks. I don't see how they have time, but they're on there nearly every day. I hope I can make more time to blog. My Aunt Judi brought it out in me- just as she did with the homeschooling thing. It turned out so well, I reckoned I'd try blogging, too. We'll see how it goes.
Oh, for the curious... the musicians want:
chili, shephers'd pie,bbq weenies, pigs in blankets, hotwings, chips w/dip & dalsa, veggie platter, crackers & cheese platter, 300 cupcakes, strawberry cobbler, and 300 big cookies. I think I got it all...
Well, TTFN! I'm off to bake some more!
Rose